COUPLES RESOURCE GUIDE
Protecting and Rebuilding Intimacy
Pornography does not just affect individuals — it affects marriages. But honesty, repentance, forgiveness, and intentional rebuilding can strengthen a relationship beyond what seemed possible.
Books
- The Death of Porn – Ray Ortlund
Short, powerful encouragement for men fighting lust and shame.
- Surfing for God – Michael John Cusick
Explores the deeper longings beneath sexual struggles.
Podcasts
Additional Resources
Practical Steps for Couples
- Establish full digital transparency (password sharing, device openness)
- Use filtering/accountability tools like Covenant Eyes
- Schedule regular, honest check-ins
- Seek professional Christian counseling if needed
- Prioritize emotional connection, not just physical intimacy